http://opentohope.com/dealing-with-grief/dont-stop-others-from-crying/ Thu, 18 Mar 2010 17:16:52 -0800 hourly 1 http://opentohope.com/dealing-with-grief/dont-stop-others-from-crying/comment-page-1/#comment-1459 amh Sat, 28 Nov 2009 06:05:42 +0000 http://opentohope.com/?p=7689#comment-1459 so true...there really isnt much any one can do except to listen and it is annoying and sometimes hurtful, even if their intentions are good, to have them try to get you to laugh...you go through the motions of getting things done but you feel like your heart is going to explode and you just want to scream, but you hold it in, until the tears come...i let me tears come, to strangers, family, friends, i try to keep them back, but when overwhelmed i let them stream and those around me can cry with me, ignore me, hug me, or just stand by me and that is fine, but 99% stand by you or cry with you so true…there really isnt much any one can do except to listen and it is annoying and sometimes hurtful, even if their intentions are good, to have them try to get you to laugh…you go through the motions of getting things done but you feel like your heart is going to explode and you just want to scream, but you hold it in, until the tears come…i let me tears come, to strangers, family, friends, i try to keep them back, but when overwhelmed i let them stream and those around me can cry with me, ignore me, hug me, or just stand by me and that is fine, but 99% stand by you or cry with you

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