Dad’s Legacy: A Lesson About Giving
Submitted by Eric Tomei on January 22, 2010 – 1:08 pmEric Tomei is a physical therapist residing in the metro Detroit area. He has a B.A. in Psychology, a B.S. in Health Sciences and a masters degree in physical therapy from Oakland University in Roche... more
No CommentOne of the great things that my dad taught me is that it is always better to give than receive, that to give unconditionally brings true happiness in life.That lesson has stuck with me. I volunteer for a charity here in Metro Detroit called Yatooma’s Foundation for the Kids (http://www.forthekidsfoundation.org). It assists families who have lost a parent with anything from grief counseling to bill-paying It touched my heart that there are so many families struggling.
I was called the week before Christmas by Kristin, one of the dedicated Yatooma workers. She needed someone to be a shopper for 1-3 families in the area. Immediately I thought, “Oh geez, I am going to have to go to the mall.” I like going to the mall as much as I would like eating a peanut butter and sardine sandwich. I think I am allergic to it.
When I called Kristin back, she needed help with going to the grocery store for three families in the metro Detroit area as part of their Extreme Christmas Makeover . At the end of three phone calls with Kristin, I volunteered for all three families. I had no idea how I would do this since we had a $400 budget for each family and a boatload of stuff to get. Thank God, my wife is a patient person and has a big vehicle!
My wife and I had so much fun shopping for those families. The two of us were like an assembly line loading and unloading groceries into the car, garage, back into the car. It was a lot of fun because you were doing something selfless. I watched the video as they delivered the groceries and staples to the families as it was filmed by the local news channel, and I smiled wide.
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