http://opentohope.com/dealing-with-loss/death-of-a-spouse/dont-go-it-alone-after-loss-of-husband/ Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:00:42 -0800 hourly 1 http://opentohope.com/dealing-with-loss/death-of-a-spouse/dont-go-it-alone-after-loss-of-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-1632 sarah basinang Sun, 10 Jan 2010 12:49:30 +0000 http://test.opentohope.com/?p=1388#comment-1632 i lost my husband to stroke last nov.2, 2009. we've been married for 18 years with only one child who is 17. it was so sudden! we're on our way to the market riding our motorcycle when i noticed something wrong in his manner of driving. we went to the nearest hospital to have his blood pressure checked. the doctor informed me that it was a mild stroke but hours later my husband was transfered to the intensive care unit and he is gone. i cry day and night. i miss him so much. we were inseparable for 18 years. i often ask my friend to pinched me, for maybe i was just having a nightmare and i want to wake up to put an end to all these dreadful things...my only hope now is my living God who never promise an explanation to all these but assures that He is in control and sets limit in what i can bear..that He is always there giving support, strenght, and will never leave me especially in these grieving moments. i know God has a purpose and His plans are the best. i lost my husband to stroke last nov.2, 2009. we’ve been married for 18 years with only one child who is 17. it was so sudden! we’re on our way to the market riding our motorcycle when i noticed something wrong in his manner of driving. we went to the nearest hospital to have his blood pressure checked. the doctor informed me that it was a mild stroke but hours later my husband was transfered to the intensive care unit and he is gone. i cry day and night. i miss him so much. we were inseparable for 18 years. i often ask my friend to pinched me, for maybe i was just having a nightmare and i want to wake up to put an end to all these dreadful things…my only hope now is my living God who never promise an explanation to all these but assures that He is in control and sets limit in what i can bear..that He is always there giving support, strenght, and will never leave me especially in these grieving moments. i know God has a purpose and His plans are the best.

]]> http://opentohope.com/dealing-with-loss/death-of-a-spouse/dont-go-it-alone-after-loss-of-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-584 Liz Chevalier Fri, 16 Jan 2009 18:06:39 +0000 http://test.opentohope.com/?p=1388#comment-584 I lost my husband to gallbladder CA Sept. 2008, we were married a little over 23 yrs. We have 17 yr old twin boys and I have to admit I too asked one of them to sleep in the bed a night or two at first when I felt so sad. I am still going thru periods when I cry and I have done it at work. I can really be hard on myself when I do this. I want to start feeling better, my kids seem to be doing better then me. I am going to a grief support group but they have not been meeting for the month of Jan. so it has been harder on me. I will have to put our house up for sale soon because I cannot afford the payments or the up keep. We had just finished building when we found out he had cancer. I would love it if others would email me. Thanks I lost my husband to gallbladder CA Sept. 2008, we were married a little over 23 yrs. We have 17 yr old twin boys and I have to admit I too asked one of them to sleep in the bed a night or two at first when I felt so sad. I am still going thru periods when I cry and I have done it at work. I can really be hard on myself when I do this. I want to start feeling better, my kids seem to be doing better then me. I am going to a grief support group but they have not been meeting for the month of Jan. so it has been harder on me. I will have to put our house up for sale soon because I cannot afford the payments or the up keep. We had just finished building when we found out he had cancer. I would love it if others would email me. Thanks

]]> http://opentohope.com/dealing-with-loss/death-of-a-spouse/dont-go-it-alone-after-loss-of-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-556 Gwen Connell Tue, 30 Dec 2008 05:01:04 +0000 http://test.opentohope.com/?p=1388#comment-556 I know what you are going through I'm going through the same thing I to lost my husband to lung cancer back in January 2008. I cry each day and night wanting him here with me so I can hold him again and to dance with him again. The story has help me out I know that I'm not the only one going through grief and pain. Thank you for your story. I know what you are going through I’m going through the same thing I to lost my husband to lung cancer back in January 2008. I cry each day and night wanting him here with me so I can hold him again and to dance with him again. The story has help me out I know that I’m not the only one going through grief and pain. Thank you for your story.

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