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Doesn’t God Listen? — Coming To Grips With The Spiritual Aspects Of Spouse Loss

Posted on September 9, 2008 - by Beverly Chantalle McManus

My prayers started the moment Steve was diagnosed with esophageal cancer:   “Please God, please, send a miracle.   Let him be in the 15% of those who statistically beat […]

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For Mothers of Children Who Have Struggled with Mental Illness and Drug Addiction

Posted on September 9, 2008 - by Debra Reagan

Dearest Mothers, In the beginning, it mattered to me the hows and whys of Clint’s death. My heart and my head argued. My heart keep saying, “He can’t be gone, […]

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Is It OK to Keep Memento of Son’s Accident?

Posted on September 9, 2008 - by Robert Neimeyer

Susan of Texas asks: My son died in a car accident, and I find comfort from holding a piece of glass from my son’s demolished car.  My friend thinks this […]

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9/11 and the ‘Shelf Life’ of Grief

Posted on September 9, 2008 - by Norman Fried

By Norman Fried It is a widely accepted belief that, as time passes, mourners’ responses to loss and trauma change. We understand that the physical reactions of grief, including psychomotor […]

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“I Don’t Want to Live With my Adult Children!” Our Parent’s Perspective

Posted on September 8, 2008 - by Carol O'Dell

If you’re a caregiver/son, daughter, please read this post. You need to put yourself in their shoes. But I don’t want to live with my adult children! Me neither. (And […]

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Dealing With the Suicide of a Spouse

Posted on September 8, 2008 - by Abel Keogh

Larry from Virginia asks: I am angry at my wife and angry at God.   My wife shot herself after receiving the news that she had been fired for a […]

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Did I Make A Mistake Having an Only Child?

Posted on September 5, 2008 - by Bob Baugher

Question from Anne: My mother warned me not to have an only child.  I guess I should have listened to her as my son died of cancer last year. Do […]

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Poem: My Grandfather and His War Buddies Outside a Whiting Diner, Age 10

Posted on September 4, 2008 - by admin

By David Harrity W.J.H., Sr., b. January 31, 1924, d. May 1, 2000 I was old enough to remember your hands waking me-the stars just beginning to move west. But […]

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The Story Of Gana: What Animals Teach About Grief

Posted on September 3, 2008 - by Norman Fried

By Norman Fried Last week, the internet and newspapers across Europe and America posted pictures of an 11-year-old gorilla named Gana clutching the corpse of her 3-month-old baby Claudio for […]

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Do You Feel Trapped by Caregiving?

Posted on September 2, 2008 - by Carol O'Dell

If you’re a family caregiver, you can feel like you’re under house arrest for a crime you didn’t commit. It’s not that you don’t want to care for your loved […]

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