on the 1st Feb this year my mum was at home gardening on a week off from work, a solid brick wall from an out building just fell on her and crushed her to death, my dad came home from work and found her, she had been there around 4hours we think, there is an inquest. i dont think i am grieving, think i am atill in shock, just cant beleive it, i am 23 and mum was only 51, anyone out there who can talk? thanks
I am so sorry for your tragic loss. What a senseless death. My prayers for you and your dad. Please find someone to speak with, whether it is a religious figure, a good friend, a professional, a grief counselor. An excellent way to get through this, if speaking to someone is not a comfortable thing for you, is to start a journal. Wcrite down all your feelings about this sudden and devastating loss. Do include your feelings and thoughts to your mom. It will help.